Check here to see if the server's online

As in puting it to my lan connection or Ip or something..

You should use like WoW item creators that creates items in SQL compatible formats and then download the official emu so you can recieve support from the emu's forums.

<Realm1 Name = "Edec's"
Address = "127.0.0.1:8129"
Icon = "PVP"
Population = "1.0"
TimeZone = "1">

theres something that resembles that in your realm thing, just change the 127.0.0.1 to a DynamicIp from no-ip.org.

http://www.mmopro.net/forums/emulator-server-guides/158-guide-to-public-non-hamichi-100-working.html
this is the guide i used to use.

When will be the server online i want to try it It sounds nice...